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Tea Time

Milk or sugar?

Nov 30 2006

Disappointment

Recently I have gone through an event of not being picked for something that I deeply wanted. I was quickly depressed and almost full of tears. But I did a few things to help me get over my disappointment.

 

1. Occupy yourself. Read, watch T.V., sing a song, go to the mall, something to keep your mind off of it.

2. When your mind does wander to the disappointment, think of hte bad things that would have happened if you were picked. And think of the good things that have come of you not being picked.

3. do something to get you really tired and relaxed. Go work out for a while then come back and take a soothing bath. That way, when you are in bed, you wont have to think of it.

4. Stand in the mirror and talk to yourself. Sternly tell you that you were not picked for a reason, but instead you will find something better to fill your time.

5. talk to someone who will help you. Your parents, your best friend, your sibling. Make sure that they are people that know you and love you.

6. Do not eat unless you are ungry. Nine out of ten times people tend to eat (and I mean extreme eating) when they are disappointed or depressed.

7. If your depression continues, talk to a doctor. Sometimes a professional is needed to help you.

 

I hope this helps anyone out there.

I know these helped me....

 

Miss. Mint

 

 

update**** I was reading comments and for sweatpky

here is your comment.

you are wierd

 

I have to tell you, sweatpky. That if you are going to call me something via writing, make sure you spell it right. LOL!!!

it's weird, by the way.

 

 

Yes

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Posted on December 17, 2006 at 3:55 PM by disturbedluvr1x
i think ur just a little weird for carin so much bout other people's lives and not bout wat u want or care bout.oo and someone needs to come to my blog
Messed Up!
Posted on December 8, 2006 at 6:24 PM by "Anonymous"

Hey miss mint,

       thought I'd say that I think yuor blog rocks, and that who ever said that you are "wierd" (OMG I can't believe they spelled it like that!) was CRAZY!  anyway, read tangerine!

 

Book Obsessed

LaLaLand
Posted on December 5, 2006 at 7:01 PM by "Anonymous"

I have this friend who cant spell to save her life!**!**!

She once spelled `moon sand' mune sant!~!!

 

 

LOL!*!*!*!(:

Posted on December 3, 2006 at 6:32 PM by "Anonymous"
Just thought everyone would like to know that Sunday, December the 10th @ 7:00 (our time here on the east coast) the time differs per time zone around the world. there will be a worldwide candle lighting service. for one hour you light a candle in rememberance of all the children that have died so young. Many churches are participating in this event but you can too, right at home. light a candle at 7:00 to in honor of the children and others who have died so young. think about their lives, many die of aids, murder, famine, and health issues.
love the lil movie so cute
Posted on December 3, 2006 at 2:29 PM by b11bball
great movie it was really cute
Posted on December 2, 2006 at 7:19 PM by ashleeanne2003
trust me when it comes to not being picked for something you really want I know exactly how you feel
lol
Posted on December 2, 2006 at 5:05 PM by "Anonymous"
Lol the comment thing was funny. Anyway thanks for those tips, I'm a person who kind of has a hard time dealing with rejection so those really helped. Love your blog by the way. :)
Posted on December 1, 2006 at 7:24 PM by daniedog
cool advice
Ola!
Posted on November 30, 2006 at 6:50 PM by cgwchip4

Hey Miss Mint...Someone called you weird?  spelling it wierd..wow i would say STUPID lol

 

comment me back

 

http://red.blogs.aol.com/cgwchip4/Love+isn't+a+maybe+thing

 

Xo0x <3 <3

Posted on November 30, 2006 at 3:29 PM by belleshell1992
that was really mean of that person...ur not weird to me...i spelled it right!yay