So school is going great, I have been studying hard, doing well in my classes, and sort of figuring out a route i want to take in the next four years. I have been working out every day and doing fun, healthy things with my friends. My room mate and I have been getting along really well, we joke around alot and are understanding eachother better. Things here are great, and I really have no complaints, or anything stressing me that I want to vent about.
However, since I am dedicated to my blog, I will express some thoughts that I have. It has become apparent to me, particularly based on comments I have recieved that people are mean. I am aware of the condition of our world, I know that my problems are insignificant specs in the big scheme of things, but this is my outlet to express myself, and if you don't like what I say, then don't read it. Saying something cruel and insensitive may be humorous and light for you, but to me it is hurtful.
Mean people suck. No one wants to be friends with someone that is negative all the time. I would much rather spend my time with someone that laughs, smiles and reaches their hand out to you, than a mean, irritable snob. The easiest thing in the world is insulting someone. Really think about it, it is so easy to come up with mean things to say about people. But if you turn that negativity upside down, it is just as easy to be nice. When people are mean to others it is because they are jealous and weak. When you call someone out for being mean, they will always so, "Whatever, I dont care" or "well i can't stand her" or "she's annoying and stupid." But really... if that person doesn't care, why the hell are they talking about her? ? ?
Everyone just needs to realize.. we are all in this together. That girl that you think you HATE... could turn out to be the best friend you'll ever have. Never let appearances determine your feelings, and give people a second chance.
One of my best friends upon moving to RI asked me, "were the boys in Hawaii hot?" I could have judged her.. and said .. wow this girl is a boy crazy dumb ass... but i didn't. I kept listening to her... day after day and week after week. she ended up being one of the smartest and deepest individuals I have ever met.
we all sometimes feel like talking about people behind their backs, but now.. when i feel like doing that.. i think about why i feel that way.. Usually it is because I am jealous or in lighter terms.. wish i could be in her shoes. That is okay though. Jealousy is normal, as long as you register it and don't become negative due to it.
So..to all the people that like to live negatively.. be nice.. i am what i am and if you don't like it take your negativity somewhere else, because life is short and you will end up with really bad wrinkles at 30 if you don't stop frowning all the time!
peace .. love.. happiness
